A candle was lit by pat stakem
on July 9, 2023 3:50 PM
A candle was lit by Tony and Greer Aukstakalnis
on August 15, 2016 7:43 PM
Message from Donna Hoffman Stimmell
August 9, 2016 9:28 AM
Cathy I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your beautiful daughter.... my heart and prayers go out to you in this most difficult time.
Donna
Message from Catahy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:13 PM
A candle was lit by Mary Ann Noll
on August 8, 2016 1:38 PM
Message from Joey & Maggie Michaels
August 7, 2016 11:10 AM
Cathy we just heard. So sorry for your loss. Prayers and thoughts are with you and yours. God Bless!
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:13 PM
A candle was lit by Ray & Cheryl Stine
on August 6, 2016 8:13 PM
A candle was lit by Hillary and John Brennan
on August 6, 2016 5:19 PM
A candle was lit by Klucker Family
on August 6, 2016 1:27 PM
A candle was lit by Tammy Davis
on August 6, 2016 10:36 AM
A candle was lit by Mary Ellen Oxenrider
on August 4, 2016 10:16 PM
A candle was lit by Wade Wiggins
on August 4, 2016 8:06 PM
A candle was lit by Dale and Leslie Oxenrider
on August 4, 2016 6:46 PM
A candle was lit by John & Lori bond
on August 4, 2016 3:28 PM
A candle was lit by Micah Watkins
on August 4, 2016 1:54 PM
A candle was lit by Brenda Jones
on August 4, 2016 11:41 AM
A candle was lit by Brenda Jones
on August 4, 2016 11:40 AM
A candle was lit by Jessica Mauer
on August 4, 2016 9:17 AM
A candle was lit by Darrell and Cindy Schoffstall Sr.
on August 3, 2016 9:57 PM
A candle was lit by Kevin and Cheryl Evans
on August 3, 2016 8:50 PM
A candle was lit by Randy and Audrey Booher
on August 3, 2016 5:55 PM
A candle was lit by Curt & Joyce Ramsey
on August 3, 2016 5:26 PM
A candle was lit by Den & Sharon Kasper
on August 3, 2016 4:32 PM
Message from chelsea bobroski
August 3, 2016 1:31 PM
Sorry for the loss of Alicia . she is in my prayers
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:12 PM
A candle was lit by Cathy Wynn
on August 3, 2016 10:13 AM
A candle was lit by Douglas E Miller Jr
on August 3, 2016 9:43 AM
A candle was lit by John C. Bowerman
on August 3, 2016 6:34 AM
Message from Ivy Drum
August 2, 2016 10:18 PM
I am so sorry for the loss of Alicia. She was a wonderful person and so sweet and caring. She could calm a child down with her soft spoken words. I have a special place in my heart for her. My hope for the family is to take it one day at a time. Reach out to others when you just can't move forward. We are here for all of you. Jim and Ivy
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:12 PM
A candle was lit by James and Ivy Drum
on August 2, 2016 10:12 PM
A candle was lit by Scott and Elaine Null
on August 2, 2016 9:41 PM
A candle was lit by Ashley Guyeski
on August 2, 2016 9:16 PM
Message from Ruth and Jane Keeney
August 2, 2016 8:43 PM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Praying that God will grant you peace and comfort in the coming days.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:11 PM
A candle was lit by Ruth and Jane Keeney
on August 2, 2016 8:41 PM
A candle was lit by Adrienne Stakem
on August 2, 2016 8:29 PM
Message from Coni Cross
August 2, 2016 5:51 PM
I'm so sorry for the loss of Alicia. We worked together at Goldsboro Orthopedics. I always remember her beautiful smile and sweet personality. She will be missed. - Coni
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:11 PM
Message from Grandma
August 2, 2016 5:48 PM
I light a candle for my Alicia, celebrating her new pain free, happy life with her Lord and Saviour.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:10 PM
Thank you. I love you. XO
A candle was lit by grandma and paul
on August 2, 2016 5:42 PM
A candle was lit by Ernest & Lillian Fauber
on August 2, 2016 2:01 PM
A candle was lit by Allen and Peg Lucas
on August 2, 2016 1:09 PM
Message from Joanne Rowe Adams
August 2, 2016 11:53 AM
So sorry for your loss. I remember Alicia as a little girl playing at the swimming pool with Josh and AJ. To loose one of you children is to loose you heart and soul. With heartfelt sympathy to the Swank and Stakem families.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:10 PM
A candle was lit by Joanne Rowe Adams and AJ Adams
on August 2, 2016 11:46 AM
A candle was lit by Harry and Linda Raudenbush
on August 2, 2016 11:32 AM
A candle was lit by Cindy Klinger and Dennis Wiebner
on August 2, 2016 10:44 AM
A candle was lit by Carol, Rich & Rachel Sitler and Marian McCready
on August 2, 2016 10:35 AM
A candle was lit by Carol and Ross Bordner
on August 2, 2016 10:25 AM
Message from Sharon & Woody Backenstoes
August 2, 2016 9:22 AM
We got to know Alicia and her family very well. Our hearts are broken to know such a wonderful person. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family during these difficult times.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:09 PM
A candle was lit by Sharon & Woody Backenstoes.
on August 2, 2016 9:20 AM
A candle was lit by Kay Newcomb
on August 2, 2016 8:50 AM
A candle was lit by David "Topper" Welker & Family
on August 2, 2016 8:35 AM
A candle was lit by Candy Schade
on August 2, 2016 8:32 AM
A candle was lit by So sorry for your loss. Dawn and Ken Drum
on August 2, 2016 7:27 AM
A candle was lit by Lisa (Boyer) Stansfield
on August 2, 2016 7:06 AM
Message from Donna Schwalm
August 2, 2016 7:04 AM
Shawn, Jackie and Family,
So sorry to hear about Alicia. Thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Hold on to your memories, no one can take them from you. God bless.
Donna and Scott Schwalm
Message from Donna Schwalm
August 2, 2016 7:04 AM
Shawn, Jackie and Family,
So sorry to hear about Alicia. Thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Hold on to your memories, no one can take them from you. God bless.
Donna and Scott Schwalm
A candle was lit by Donna and Scott Schwalm
on August 2, 2016 6:55 AM
Message from Maggie Shuttlesworth
August 2, 2016 2:05 AM
I have many nice memories of growing up with Alicia in softball and from the period when my Dad and Shawn did contracting work together. She randomly popped into my life again in hs as my biology partner. She always brought a smile to my face and had such an amazing spirit. I am so sorry for your loss. She was one of a kind and unforgettable.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:08 PM
A candle was lit by Maggie Shuttlesworth
on August 2, 2016 2:00 AM
Message from Robert Hubert
August 2, 2016 12:13 AM
In this sorrowful time, I would like to extend to you my heartfelt condolences. May our Lord comfort you and your loved ones.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:07 PM
A candle was lit by Robert Hubert and Family
on August 2, 2016 12:11 AM
A candle was lit by Joe, Diane and Joey English
on August 2, 2016 12:06 AM
A candle was lit by Russ and Peggy Montgomery
on August 1, 2016 10:56 PM
A candle was lit by Rosemary (Stuppy) Hoke
on August 1, 2016 9:41 PM
Message from Rob & Carolyn Potts
August 1, 2016 9:41 PM
May the warm memories of your beautiful Alicia bring you strength from day to day, and help to heal in the days to come .Thoughts & prayers.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:07 PM
A candle was lit by Brent and Jill Shuttlesworth
on August 1, 2016 9:37 PM
A candle was lit by So sorry , no words.
on August 1, 2016 9:33 PM
A candle was lit by David and Kathy Collins Williams
on August 1, 2016 9:31 PM
A candle was lit by george wolfe
on August 1, 2016 9:27 PM
Message from Keith and Gwen Leuschner
August 1, 2016 9:26 PM
Our sincere sympathies in your loss of Alicia
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:06 PM
A candle was lit by Bob & Sharon Bond
on August 1, 2016 9:21 PM
A candle was lit by Rob,Carolyn,Caley & Cami Potts
on August 1, 2016 9:17 PM
A candle was lit by Lara Hege
on August 1, 2016 9:13 PM
A candle was lit by Dennis Spittle
on August 1, 2016 9:09 PM
A candle was lit by Kate Barnhardt
on August 1, 2016 8:51 PM
A candle was lit by Lynn and Carla Hoy
on August 1, 2016 8:45 PM
A candle was lit by Maria Flynn
on August 1, 2016 8:21 PM
A candle was lit by Paul & Anne Marie Dimon
on August 1, 2016 8:13 PM
A candle was lit by Rose and Ronald Reedy
on August 1, 2016 8:00 PM
Message from Sandy n Tim Schaffner
August 1, 2016 7:53 PM
Shawn, Cathy and families
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:06 PM
A candle was lit by Sandy Schaffner
on August 1, 2016 7:51 PM
A candle was lit by Adrienne
on August 1, 2016 7:43 PM
A candle was lit by Lovel Welker
on August 1, 2016 7:32 PM
Message from Dad, Jackie, Kevin and beautiful
August 1, 2016 7:08 PM
A candle was lit by Dad, Jackie, Kevin and Kenny
on August 1, 2016 7:06 PM
A candle was lit by Kyle and Mandy Witmer
on August 1, 2016 7:01 PM
A candle was lit by Peggy Brewer
on August 1, 2016 6:57 PM
A candle was lit by Judy (Bowerman) & George Drees & family Thoughts and Prayer
on August 1, 2016 6:49 PM
A candle was lit by Steve & Deb Welker
on August 1, 2016 6:43 PM
A candle was lit by Diana Gregory
on August 1, 2016 6:42 PM
Message from Christine (Sener) Dockery and family
August 1, 2016 6:39 PM
Dear Kathy,
My sincere condolences. We have made a donation to the Mid-Atlantic Great Dane Rescue League on Alicia's behalf. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:05 PM
A candle was lit by Donald & Sharon Shutt
on August 1, 2016 6:38 PM
Message from Bob and Patti Zerby
August 1, 2016 6:30 PM
Shawn and Cathy, and families,
So very sorry to hear about Alicia. She was such a happy sweet girl. She and Krista were at the sitters at the same time growing up. We hope all of you can find comfort in your memories you have of her
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:05 PM
A candle was lit by Bob and Patti Zerby
on August 1, 2016 6:27 PM
A candle was lit by Ashley (Miller) Null
on August 1, 2016 6:21 PM
A candle was lit by Christine (Sener) Dockery and family
on August 1, 2016 6:20 PM
A candle was lit by Tiffany (Readinger) Boyer
on August 1, 2016 6:17 PM
A candle was lit by Deb & Dan Daniels
on August 1, 2016 6:08 PM
A candle was lit by Ashley Molins and Family
on August 1, 2016 6:05 PM
A candle was lit by JKarl Peters and Keisha.
on August 1, 2016 5:50 PM
A candle was lit by Dale, Diane & Daniel Boyer
on August 1, 2016 5:47 PM
A candle was lit by Dale, Diane & Daniel Boyer
on August 1, 2016 5:40 PM
A candle was lit by JoLynn Miller
on August 1, 2016 5:40 PM
A candle was lit by Sherrie Neidlinger
on August 1, 2016 5:38 PM
Message from Gail L Saufley
August 1, 2016 5:31 PM
Cathy, so sorry to hear about your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. May you find peace in knowing Alicia is no longer suffering. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Gail
A candle was lit by John and Cindy Welsh with deepest sympathy
on August 1, 2016 5:28 PM
Message from John and Linda(Drum) Lewis
August 1, 2016 5:04 PM
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:04 PM
A candle was lit by John and Linda(Drum) Lewis
on August 1, 2016 5:02 PM
A candle was lit by Joyce Hoffman
on August 1, 2016 4:58 PM
A candle was lit by Sher Heberling
on August 1, 2016 4:50 PM
A candle was lit by Bob and Joann Delaney
on August 1, 2016 4:47 PM
A candle was lit by JC Reidler
on August 1, 2016 4:44 PM
Message from Mark S Dyer
August 1, 2016 4:42 PM
I would have poured out my heart to you and made my thoughts known to you.
Proverbs 1:23
My peace be with you and your entire family....
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:03 PM
A candle was lit by Brian and Suzanne Shiley
on August 1, 2016 4:32 PM
Message from Brian and Suzanne Shiley
August 1, 2016 4:32 PM
Shawn and entire Stakem family
Suzanne and I wish to send our deepest condolences in the passing of your daughter
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:03 PM
A candle was lit by Kim Rodichok Latchford
on August 1, 2016 4:31 PM
A candle was lit by Gary and Sue Keiter
on August 1, 2016 4:16 PM
A candle was lit by Lori and Joe Hoy
on August 1, 2016 4:15 PM
A candle was lit by Tom and Lynne Houtz
on August 1, 2016 4:09 PM
Message from Gail Saufley
August 1, 2016 4:07 PM
So sorry for the loss of your daughter, Alicia. My condolences go out to you and your family. May you find peace in knowing that she is no longer suffering. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Gail
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:02 PM
Thank you so much, Gail. xo
A candle was lit by Jane Klinger & Family
on August 1, 2016 3:58 PM
A candle was lit by Nicky Zerby
on August 1, 2016 3:53 PM
A candle was lit by Ian Rodichok and family.
on August 1, 2016 3:43 PM
A candle was lit by Lynne Daniel
on August 1, 2016 3:40 PM
A candle was lit by Adi Pise
on August 1, 2016 3:38 PM
Message from Janette, Chris,Brooke and Marissa Shutt
August 1, 2016 3:34 PM
To all of Alicia's family, our deepest condolences,thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:02 PM
A candle was lit by Janette, Chris, Brooke and Marissa Shutt
on August 1, 2016 3:30 PM
A candle was lit by Vanessa Meireles (Nessa Mei on facebook)
on August 1, 2016 3:23 PM
A candle was lit by Dee and Family
on August 1, 2016 3:22 PM
A candle was lit by Anne Romberger
on August 1, 2016 3:21 PM
A candle was lit by Penny and Terry Bush
on August 1, 2016 3:21 PM
A candle was lit by Gail Saufley
on August 1, 2016 3:17 PM
A candle was lit by Tina Carlin
on August 1, 2016 3:09 PM
Message from Tina Carlin
August 1, 2016 3:08 PM
I don't even know what to say. Alicia is a beautiful young lady and I know you are going to miss her terribly. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers and if you need anything please let me know. If you just want to talk or anything please do not hesitate.
my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Tina Carlin
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:01 PM
Thank you so much, Tina. xo
A candle was lit by Ann Minnich
on August 1, 2016 3:07 PM
A candle was lit by Gail Saufley
on August 1, 2016 3:02 PM
A candle was lit by Bev and Bob Reigle
on August 1, 2016 2:43 PM
Message from Bob and Beverly
August 1, 2016 2:43 PM
So very sorry for your loss were praying for all of you. Your in our thoughts. Love Bev and Bob Reigle.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:00 PM
A candle was lit by Judy Houtz and Jim Rabuck So sorry.
on August 1, 2016 2:38 PM
A candle was lit by Shawn & Yolanda Wetzel
on August 1, 2016 2:19 PM
A candle was lit by Winnie Hay
on August 1, 2016 2:15 PM
A candle was lit by LeeAnn
on August 1, 2016 2:12 PM
Message from LeeAnn (Ressler) Cotten
August 1, 2016 2:12 PM
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers going out to you all in your time of need.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 1:00 PM
A candle was lit by Mary (Nace) Bopp
on August 1, 2016 2:08 PM
A candle was lit by Ray & Sherry Archer
on August 1, 2016 2:05 PM
A candle was lit by Sadie and Emma
on August 1, 2016 1:54 PM
A candle was lit by Aunt Donna & Uncle Chris
on August 1, 2016 1:54 PM
Message from Tiffany lenker
August 1, 2016 1:53 PM
God bless. Thoughts and prayers are with family and friends.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 12:59 PM
A candle was lit by Tiffany (wetzel) lenker
on August 1, 2016 1:51 PM
Message from The Hernandez Family
August 1, 2016 1:49 PM
Our deepest condolences for the loss of your family member. We did not get to meet her but after knowing her sister and mother, we know what type of person she would have been to know and in loss of life, there is grief. Our thoughts are with you as your family grieves the loss of a member. She brightened the earth for a short time and she'll always live with you in your memories....Martin and Candy
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 12:59 PM
A candle was lit by John & Kathy Boyer
on August 1, 2016 1:49 PM
A candle was lit by Diane and Rich Keister
on August 1, 2016 1:48 PM
Message from The Gilkeys
August 1, 2016 1:47 PM
We offer our sincerest condolences to the family. Our thoughts are with in this very difficult time
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 12:58 PM
A candle was lit by The Gilkeys
on August 1, 2016 1:45 PM
A candle was lit by Scott and Lisa Witmer
on August 1, 2016 1:44 PM
A candle was lit by Ron & Diane Machamer
on August 1, 2016 1:29 PM
A candle was lit by Tim & Tammy Beers
on August 1, 2016 1:26 PM
A candle was lit by Courtney
on August 1, 2016 1:26 PM
A candle was lit by Nikki Kibler
on August 1, 2016 1:24 PM
Message from Kim & Lou Mione
August 1, 2016 1:23 PM
Cathy and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Kim n Lou
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 12:58 PM
A candle was lit by Kim & Lou Mione
on August 1, 2016 1:21 PM
Message from Jill Martin
August 1, 2016 1:14 PM
I am so saddened to hear of your loss! What a beautiful young woman. May you feel comfort and peace in the days ahead. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 12:57 PM
Message from Stephanie Brokate
August 1, 2016 1:13 PM
My dear Tiffany, I am so very sorry for you and your family. Your sister like you, so filled with enjoyment of life! A beautiful girl who will always stay in our hearts and help us to remember, life is a celebration. May peace follow you all! I love you Steph
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 12:56 PM
Message from Sharon Moore
August 1, 2016 1:10 PM
My sincerely sympathy to you Cathy and your family. Big hugs. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 12:56 PM
A candle was lit by Don and Carol Schwalm
on August 1, 2016 1:05 PM
A candle was lit by Scott Warfel and Family
on August 1, 2016 12:58 PM
A candle was lit by Janna and Gene Miller
on August 1, 2016 12:48 PM
A candle was lit by Gary and Shelly Klinger
on August 1, 2016 12:44 PM
A candle was lit by Kelly windle
on August 1, 2016 12:38 PM
A candle was lit by Susan Nolen Hoffner
on August 1, 2016 12:37 PM
A candle was lit by Mary Jane Lutz Koppenhaver
on August 1, 2016 12:35 PM
Message from Sarah (Bowman) Pence & Family
August 1, 2016 12:32 PM
So very sorry to hear of the passing of a classmate. Alicia had such a vibrant smile, fun loving personality, and kind heart. She will be dearly missed by so many. Our deepest condolences and prayers to her family and all who have been touched by her beautiful spirit. ❤
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 12:55 PM
A candle was lit by Sharon Cinqmars
on August 1, 2016 12:32 PM
A candle was lit by The Markels
on August 1, 2016 12:31 PM
Message from Kimberly Zimmerman
August 1, 2016 12:27 PM
My heart goes out to the family and friends of Alicia may God be with you all my memories of her as a young girl and her friendship with my daughter Samantha will hold a special place in my heart RIP sweet Angel 💜
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 12:55 PM
A candle was lit by Dane & Margaret Bowerman
on August 1, 2016 12:23 PM
A candle was lit by John Mauser
on August 1, 2016 12:22 PM
Message from sheri (fry) gonder
August 1, 2016 12:20 PM
Kathy and family so sorry for your loss.
Message from sheri (fry) gonder
August 1, 2016 12:20 PM
Kathy and family so sorry for your loss.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 12:54 PM
A candle was lit by Sue Keisling-Gundry
on August 1, 2016 12:19 PM
A candle was lit by Jode Smith
on August 1, 2016 12:19 PM
A candle was lit by sheri (fry) gonder
on August 1, 2016 12:17 PM
A candle was lit by Kimberly Zimmerman
on August 1, 2016 12:15 PM
A candle was lit by Bryan Machamer and family
on August 1, 2016 12:06 PM
A candle was lit by Michele, Shahriar, and Sophie
on August 1, 2016 12:03 PM
A candle was lit by Dotti (Collins) Raubenstine
on August 1, 2016 12:01 PM
A candle was lit by Donnie n Karen Houtz
on August 1, 2016 11:49 AM
Message from Jody Carl
August 1, 2016 11:48 AM
My deepest condolences to the Swank and Stakem families.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 12:53 PM
A candle was lit by Jody Carl
on August 1, 2016 11:47 AM
A candle was lit by Marcia Evans
on August 1, 2016 11:46 AM
A candle was lit by Jenna Gonder
on August 1, 2016 11:44 AM
A candle was lit by Rose McGuigan (Koppenhaver) and Family
on August 1, 2016 11:43 AM
A candle was lit by Linda Kay Deiter Waltermyer
on August 1, 2016 11:41 AM
A candle was lit by Todd Bettinger
on August 1, 2016 11:38 AM
A candle was lit by Aunt Bridget & Uncle Bob
on August 1, 2016 11:38 AM
Message from Rick and Barbara Deiter Merwine
August 1, 2016 11:37 AM
So Sorry for your loss Cathy your family are in our thoughts and prayers
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 12:53 PM
A candle was lit by Pam Moore & Craig Wrights
on August 1, 2016 11:36 AM
A candle was lit by Rick and barbara Merwine
on August 1, 2016 11:33 AM
Message from Diana and Ross Baker
August 1, 2016 11:29 AM
Cathy and family and Shawn and family - we are so sorry for your loss. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Message from Cathy Stakem
August 16, 2016 12:52 PM
A candle was lit by Joe & Judy Shuttlesworth
on August 1, 2016 11:23 AM
A candle was lit by James E. Machamer
on August 1, 2016 11:03 AM